Saturday, October 17, 2009

We've Lost Another Of Our Wonderful Sing-Out Parents

I received word late last night (Friday, October 16) that Curry Barry, the father of Sing-Out South cast members, Buster and Beverly Barry, had passed away at the age of 87. According to another one of his children, Brazo, Mr. Barry died from complications following a recent surgery.

At this time, all I know about arrangements is that the funeral will be Tuesday, October 20 at the Cathedral of the Incarnation Catholic Church on West End Avenue. I will post more details as I receive them.

UPDATED INFORMATION (Sunday October 18): Mr. Barry's funeral mass will be at 10:00 a.m. Tuesday morning, October 20 at the Cathedral with Father Joe Pat Breen as the celebrant. Vistation with the family will be on Monday, October 19 from 2:00-4:00 p.m. and 5:00 p.m.-8:00 p.m.(with a rosary at 7:00 p.m.)at Marshall Donnelly Funeral Home located next to Centennial Park.

The Barrys were one of the very active families in Sing-Out South from the very beginning. Buster, the oldest son, was a member of the original cast of Sing-Out South, and traveled with Cast B of Up With People beginning in the summer of 1966 following the National Sing-Out Conference in Estes Park, CO.

Buster continued with the national cast and left Father Ryan to take his junior and senior years of high school on the road with Up With People, although Father James Hitchcock, the principal at Ryan, made sure both Buster and Robbie Rourke, another Father Ryan student traveling with UWP, got the chance to come back and graduate with their Ryan classmates in the spring of 1967 (Robbie Rourke) and the spring of 1968 (Buster Barry).

After Buster left Sing-Out South his sister,Beverly,the oldest daughter,joined the cast and stayed with the show for several years while she attended Saint Bernard Academy.

Beverly Barry is fourth from the left in this photo, next to Jill Walters. Others in this photo are (from the left) Kenny Swider, Lee Lee Luken Dorough and Mary Jane Varley.

Beverly & Buster's mom, Mrs. Marian Barry, was one of the cast mothers who was almost always there for practices along with helping to car-pool cast members to both shows and rehersals. She also helped store and carry around a lot of the Sing-Out materials (record albums, books, etc) that we sold at our shows. I can remember that old blue Chevy Impala station wagon the Barrys had filled to overflowing with cast members and SOS sales materials as we set off for one more show.

Mr.Barry was also a frequent attendee at practices and shows, and their home on Clairmont Place just off Woodmont Blvd. was often a site for cast members to hang out(even though the Barrys already had a house full of children of their own).

Of course, when one of the national casts of Up With People would come to town, the Barrys always took some into their home. That also included when the cast of Sing-Out Asia arrived in Nashville in September, 1968.

Sing-Out Asia practices on stage at West End High School in Nashville in September, 1968

Here's what Mrs. Barry once told me about the time Sing-Out Asia came to town.

"I remember it well. We had six boys (from Sing Out Asia) staying at our house on Clairmont Place and I had to farm out six of my own children to neighbors (to find them a place) to sleep. Of course, they all came home to eat. It was a hot summer and we managed to find swim trunks for the boys and took them to the Knights of Columbus swimming pool (on Bosley Springs Road near what is now St. Thomas Hospital) for a swim. They really seemed to enjoy that. One (Sing Out Asia) cast member spoke almost no English and I spoke no Japanese. But we managed to communicate through sign language."

The Barry's frequently opened their home to others...even on Christmas Day. I fondly remember going by there every Christmas Day for their Open House while I was in the cast. It remains one of my favorite holiday memories growing up.

Mr. Barry was a 1940 graduate of Father Ryan and retired after a 40-year career with the Clements Paper Company. He was an Air Force veteran and a 50-year member of the Knights of Columbus. Memorials may be made either to Father Ryan High School or the Sisters of Mercy Convent. He and Mrs. Barry were married for 61 years and had 10 children and 12 grandchildren.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Barry family at this difficult time. If you have any thoughts or memories to share, please feel free to do so below.

May Mr. Barry rest in peace.

7 comments:

  1. Thank you, Mr. Nolan, for this great remembrance of my Papaw. Uncle Buster used his singing talent to bless us with Ave Maria at the service. I'm sure his Sing-Out South family would have been proud.

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  2. Thank you for your kind words and for visiting this blog.

    Your Papaw was a tremendous man and his funeral mass was a wonderful celebration of his life and of your entire family!

    As a member of Buster's Sing-Out South family, I really enjoyed and was proud of his singing of "Ave Maria." I also was very impressed by the tributes offered to Mr. Barry by the family members during the Mass. I'd love to have copies of their remarks to share here on the blog. So, if you can obtain them, please e-mail them to me at pat.nolan@dvl.com

    Thank you and please know that we were all blessed to have known and loved your Papaw.

    Pat

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  3. Thank you, Pat, for your tribute to my family and my father. I so appreciate the kind words and acknowledgement of what my Dad has meant to so many in the Catholic community, Sing Out South, as well as to my brothers and sisters and my mother. You are a genuine soul of keeping memories alive.
    Beverly Barry

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  4. Pat -
    What a wonderful article that I know means so much to the family and friends. My prayers go out to each and every family member. I will always remmember good times at the Barry house. I too cherish the Open House at Christmas. May God bless and comfort each of you. Karen Brock

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  5. Thank you, Karen and thank you, Beverly.

    I really appreciate your kind comments and your visiting the blog. I hope you will return often and leave your own thoughts, memories or suggestions about blog posting we can do concerning our time together in Sing-Out South.

    Or you can send all those things to me at pat.nolan@dvl.com and I will post your thoughts, memories or ideas for you here.

    Karen, we have an entire list of former Sing-Out South folks we are in touch with. If you'll send me an e-mail, I will send the list to you and I will include you in that group.

    I think you'll find a lot of folks you'll remember on the list. They are folks you'd want to be back in touch with again after so many years.

    In that regard (and after talking with Beverly), I am trying to re-connect with Marlene Echols, but so far, I don't have any fresh leads.

    But I am still working.

    God bless you both, and your families....Pat

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  6. My name is Rey Sayno and I was one of the guitarists for Sing-Out Asia way back 1968 when we had a cross-country tour/concert in USA. I stayed with the Johnston family when we were in Nashville (my regards and thanks). I would like to thank everyone for their warm
    hositality and on behalf of Sing-Out Asia, I would like to extend our sympathy and condolences. "Up With People"

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  7. Here is my e-mail address - saynoreynaldo@gmail.com, Sing-Out Asia is active again since 2 years ago, and having concerts all over asia.

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